Wednesday, November 27, 2019

The Twentybens: Ben Celebrates the Best of the 2010's

10 x 10 x 10 x Ben: Ten Top 10's of the 2010's by Ben



Top Ten Years of the 2010’s

1. 2012
2. 2015
3. 2013
4. 2017
5. 2014
6. 2010
7. 2011
8. 2018
9. 2019
10. 2016


Top Ten Board Games

1. Terraforming Mars
2. Star Wars: Rebellion
3. Dice Throne
4. Spirit Island
5. Codenames
6. Pandemic: Legacy Season One
7. Mythic Battles: Pantheon
8. Scythe
9. City of the Big Shoulders: Chicago 1895
10. Tussie Mussie


 Top Ten New Star Wars Characters

1. Jyn Erso
2. The Client
3. Poe Dameron
4. Kylo Ren
5. K-2SO
6. Rey
7. Cassian Andor
8. Finn
9. That Droid with Fleabag’s Voice
10. Maclunkey





Top Ten Kansas City Restaurants/Bars I Was Sad to See Close

1. Thomas
2. The Golden Ox
3. Plaza III
4. El Porton (the one that was way the hell out in JoCo)
5. Justus Drugstore
6. Crosstown Station
7. Holy Smoke BBQ
8. The Foundry
9. Boozefish
10. Fred P. Ott’s


Top Ten Toughest Losses by Sports Teams I Follow

1. Patriots 37 Chiefs 31 (OT) 1/20/19
2. Giants 3 Royals 2 10/29/14
3. Norfolk St. 86 Mizzou 84 3/17/12
4. Timbers 3 Sporting 2 11/29/18
5. Colts 45 Chiefs 44  1/4/14
6. Trinidad & Tobago 2 USA 1  10/10/17
7. Auburn 59 Mizzou 42  12/7/13
8. Timbers 2 Sporting 2 (7-6 pks)  10/29/15
9. Steelers 18 Chiefs 16  1/15/17
10. redacted 87 Mizzou 86 (OT) 2/25/12


Top Ten Courtney Barnett Songs

1. Elevator Operator
2. Avant-Gardener
3. Depreston
4. Pedestrian at Best
5. Charity
6. Debbie Downer
7. Three Packs a Day
8. Crippling Self-Doubt and a General Lack of Confidence
9. Everybody Here Hates You
10. Nobody Really Cares If You Don’t Go to the Party


 Top Ten Most Popular Girl Names of the 2010’s Re-Ranked from Best Name to Worst Name

1. Abigail
2. Emily
3. Mia
4. Isabella
5. Charlotte
6. Sophia
7. Olivia
8. Emma
9. Ava
10. Madison


Top Ten Concerts I Attended

1. Rex Hobart & the Misery Boys, impromptu memorial concert for George Jones at Davey’s
2. Howard Iceberg Tribute at Crosstown Station
3. The Sawyers at Loose Mansion
4. Robbie Fulks at Knuckleheads when he was touring Upland Stories
5. Parquet Courts at The Granada
6. Sleater-Kinney at the Uptown
7. John Prine at the Midland
8. Someone Still Loves You Boris Yeltsin w/ The Grisly Hand at old Record Bar
9. The Iron Question, the night they came to blows with the Davey’s sound guy
10. Beck w/ Willie Nelson at the Starlight


Top Ten Mottos, Phrases, or Software Titles Deployed by the University of Central Missouri That Could Also Be Names of Sci-Fi Robots or Slogans of Dissident Political Groups

1. Choose Red
2. MOTR-CORE 42
3. S-RAM
4. TK-20
5. Opportunity in Action
6. Mo’s Maniacs
7. SLO
8. Curriculog
9. CHIDS
10. The Crossing


Top Ten Musical Numbers in Non-Musical TV Shows

1. “Misbehavin’” from The Righteous Gemstones
2. The Hold Steady’s version of “The Bear and the Maiden Fair” from Game of Thrones
3. “The Spirits of Christmas” from Bob’s Burgers
4. “Paper Boi” from Atlanta
5. Gale Boetticher’s cover of “Major Tom” on Breaking Bad
6. “Anything Goes in Florida” from Big Mouth
7. Work Hard or Die Trying Girl from Bob’s Burgers
8. Cover of “The Never-Ending Story” from Stranger Things
9. “Make Bullying Kill Itself” from South Park
10. The Rock singing along to “Shake It Off” from Ballers

Sunday, November 24, 2019

The Shackles of Youth: Monster at 25, Me at 42


REM never put out a proper live album during the 1980’s or 1990’s, so while their deluxe album reissues of the past several years have been transparent cash-grabs with a marketing bullseye fixed squarely on forty-something white people, they have nevertheless filled the one obvious gap in the band’s catalog by usually including an entire archival live show with each album.[1]

The new Monster re-release truly activates my nostalgia receptors, though, because the attached 25-song live disc was recorded a whopping six days after the one and only time that I ever saw REM.

In late May of 1995, I was a couple weeks out of high school. I remember it as an almost ludicrously idyllic summer, in spite of the fact that I got mono at the end of it. I worked a couple shit jobs (telemarketer; McDonald’s) but those were just way stations before I headed to college in August. I was an REM fanboy dating a Cocteau Twins fangirl. I hung out with a group of friends I’d mostly known since forever—the friend I met right after the eighth grade was still “the new guy.” We played a lot of pool; we ate a lot of junk food; we jostled for control of the stereo. We bantered and hoped that any girls present would laugh. We developed a fascination with stealing traffic cones. It still sticks in my head that all summer long, whenever I headed home at some late warm quiet hour, if I happened to look up I would see Jupiter prominent in the southern sky, silently watching as time flew off its spindle.  

But for me, in 1995, the only pantheon that mattered was Berry, Buck, Mills, and Stipe. REM simultaneously exploded and turtled in the early 90’s, as they did not tour to support either of what turned out to be their two biggest albums. My wife, who is a handful of years older than I am (and who furthermore was a hip city girl rather than a lumbering hill person), saw multiple REM shows while she was in high school in the late 80’s, but for the 90’s kids who got roped in by “Losing My Religion,” there was some serious pent-up demand for an REM tour. So my friends bought a bunch of tickets and we plotted a road trip to Kansas City.

I know that the idea of car full of teenagers road-tripping to a rock concert conjures images out of Dazed and Confused, but that, I must report, was not us. Outside of some low-grade vandalism, none of us ever got up to much in the way of hijinks. We were excited to see opening act Sonic Youth, the band that played “Teenage Riot,” but that was the extent of our interest in rioting. The only one of us who hadn’t been on the debate team all the way through high school had played Horace Vandergelder in the drama club’s production of Hello Dolly. We wouldn’t get deep into our particular token vices (weed, whiskey, Criterion DVD’s, etc) until we got a bit older. And yes, we were a pack of 18-year-old boys convinced of our own cleverness, so I’m sure we were more than a little annoying—hell, we’re still pretty annoying—but we were not exactly the “holy shit hide your daughters” brigade.

When I first gave it a listen a few weeks ago, I was not quite prepared for how much the live disc on the Monster reissue would take me back to that night 24 years ago. I’m also a bit surprised how well I remember the show (apparently my memory was better before I started drinking). The show on the reissue is from Chicago, and its setlist is pretty similar to the Kansas City show: the songs from Monster and the radio hits are all the same, and then there’s some difference in the assortment of older non-singles. “Try Not to Breathe” is what I remember as the highlight of the KC show, stripped of its Automatic for the People stateliness in favor of Monster-era sturm-und-drang, so I was bummed that it’s not on the Chicago set. But every other song I specifically recall is here. Both sets opened with “What’s the Frequency, Kenneth,” because once you’ve written the riff to “What’s the Frequency, Kenneth” why would you open a show with anything else?

The disc on the reissue opens with three straight songs from Monster, and you can tell that the band is laser-focused on whatever glammed-out post-grunge demon-muse they were chasing circa 1994. “Circus Envy”, which I would not normally list as a favorite REM song, sounds absolutely amazing in this live version. I’m not any kind of guitar gear nerd, so I have no idea what Peter Buck is actually doing, but whatever it is, his guitar variously roars and spits and sizzles while Michael Stipe growls and Mike Mills is, as he always was, nothing less than one of the best harmony singers of the rock era.  

The best stuff is by and large the deep cuts—certainly the band seems more excited about playing them. “Country Feedback” is positioned right after “Man on the Moon” to be the bathroom break dirge for all the non-true-believers, but that doesn’t change the fact that it rules. It’s followed by another excellent deep cut in “Monty Got a Raw Deal”, a song I loved for years before I had any idea who Monty was or why he got a raw deal (fwiw: Montgomery Clift; persecuted for his sexual orientation). When you’re a teenager, though, you don’t really need to know why someone got a raw deal to be able to dig a pissed-off rock song about it.

Also memorable is the version of “Orange Crush” included here, which kicks all the ass on Earth. I need to check with Nick, but I believe that is the correct musicological terminology.

Anyway, I remember that night in KC being a whale of a good time. Sonic Youth opened and freaked out anyone who bought tickets because they’d heard REM on the station that played Hootie. My friends and I bought t-shirts in various shades of hideous early-90’s green that would soon be discontinued as part of the Contract with America. We were well-centered in the amphitheater, so the sound was good. I’d seen other shows before—Smashing Pumpkins a year before was a notable highlight—but that was in Springfield rather than KC, at a venue I associated primarily with the Sertoma Chili Cook-Off, and Smashing Pumpkins weren’t REM. REM was the first time I’d seen a concert with that many people, with that many lights, with that level of audio equipment, and while it’s easy to dismiss all the trappings of a huge concert as kinda hokey, there’s a reason people keep going. A few of my friends sat down to protest the very existence of “Everybody Hurts,” and while I strongly sympathize with that point of view, I couldn’t bring myself to openly disrespect the band. They closed with “It’s the End of the World As We Know It,” because once you’ve written the coda to that song why would you close a show with anything else? We ate at Waffle House on the way home, as was the custom at the time.

You know, of course, what happens next. My high school friends and I all headed off to our various futures: new jobs, new schools, new cities, new friends. We kept in touch, we fell out of touch, we got back in touch, we meet up from time to time. REM, too, reached an ending that was also a beginning—one more album with the original lineup, then Bill Berry left the band, and their albums were never quite great anymore. At the same time, the popular market for rock music turned to Limp Bizkit and Nickleback, the trends in critic-approved music became less pastoral and rock-centric, and REM never again mattered as much as they used to, to me or to the world. September, as some old pop crooner once sang, was coming soon.




[1] Fwiw, the live recordings I would most recommend are the ones attached to the Murmur, Green, and Monster reissues.

Monday, November 18, 2019

The Twentybens: Ben Celebrates the Best of the 2010's

The Time The Situation Slammed His Own Head Into a Wall


The first time I watched this scene, Ruth walked in just as it was happening to ask me a question about William James. To be clear, Ruth and I do not typically sit around and discuss philosophy. Mostly we talk about the dogs and the bills and what to do for dinner and all the other stuff married people talk about. But in this moment Ruth wanted to interrupt my viewing of Jersey Shore to discuss the father of American Pragmatism.

Reader, I shushed her. I want to be clear that I do not frequently shush my wife. I’m not claiming any special degree of wokeness; I just happen not be the shushing type. But in that moment, I shushed her. In my defense, the quintessential television scene of our epoch was unfolding before my very eyes.

Behold the power of steroids, cocaine, and human folly:





It’s tempting to say that an angry white man willfully slamming his head into a concrete wall is a perfect metaphor for America in the 2010’s. But at the same time, I don’t want to over-read this scene. Let the moment be all vehicle, no tenor. It is what it is. It’s a ridiculous man smashing his head into a wall. Hard. 

I relish the fact that this happened in a foreign country, since it no doubt allowed the Italian medical professionals to openly mock The Situation while treating him. I’m sure that provided them with a measure of comfort.

Jwoww later asserts that “this isn’t funny anymore.” I disagree.

Based on recent seasons of Jersey Shore (yeah, I’m still watching), it appears that Michael Sorrentino has changed his life for the better. We're grading on a curve here--he did spend the better part of 2019 in federal prison--but still, rehab seems to have helped, and I hope that it is not just the editing room making it look like he has learned to be a bit more chill in middle age.

Friday, November 15, 2019

My Emmeline


Emmeline Grangerford occupies a grand total of three paragraphs in the back half of Chapter 17 of The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn. Huck never actually meets her, she has no discernible impact upon the plot, and she is never discussed again. She is also, without question, one of my favorite characters in all of American literature.

When we meet Emmeline, we are at something like the early-middle of the novel, which runs to 43 chapters in sum. Huck and Jim have been travelling down the river together for several chapters at this point, and they recently overshot the mouth of the Ohio during a heavy fog. Shortly thereafter, they narrowly avoid being killed by a steamboat headed upstream, and in the ensuing chaos, they are separated and Huck winds up being taken in by the Grangerford family, while Jim finds shelter (and, more importantly, a hiding place) in the slave quarters.

The bulk of the Grangerford sequence is given over to the family’s feud with the nearby Shepherdson clan, which includes a star-crossed lovers subplot and, eventually, some of Twain’s most powerful writing about violence and trauma. But before all that, Twain gets an obvious kick out of using the Grangerfords to poke fun at the tackiness and aristocratic delusions of wealthy slave-holders in the antebellum South. Much of Chapter 17 depicts the raw tonnage of cheaply-made bric-a-brac scattered about the Grangerford house.[1] But by the end of the chapter Huck winds his way back to a set of framed crayon drawings by the family’s recently-deceased, artistically-inclined daughter, Emmeline.  

Huck says of these drawings that, “They was different from any pictures I ever see before; blacker, mostly, than is common.” Emmeline’s great subject matter is portraits of solitary women in various attitudes of despair, which are all given long titles including the word “Alas.” For instance, a drawing of a woman holding an opened letter and “mashing a locket with a chain to it against her mouth” is titled “And Art Thou Gone Yes Thou Art Gone Alas”, or another of a weeping girl holding a dead bird is called “I Shall Never Hear Thy Sweet Chirrup More Alas.” That last one always kills me. The Emmeline drawing which was illustrated in early editions of Huck Finn is an unfinished work in which a girl in a white gown is preparing to jump off a bridge, and Emmeline, unable to decide how to position the girl’s arms, had drawn three different options, but then had died before choosing which she preferred. Huck notes that “The young woman in the picture had kind of a nice sweet face, but there was so many arms it made her look too spidery, seemed to me.”

Emmeline is also a poet; she specializes in writing elegies whenever anyone in the town dies. Huck quotes in full her poem about a deceased child whose name, conveniently for the poem’s thudding iambics, is Stephen Dowling Bots. Emmeline spends several stanzas describing all the ways Stephen didn’t die, and then she concludes:

            Oh no. Then list with tearful eye,
            Whilst I his fate do tell.
            His soul did from this cold world fly,
            By falling down a well.

            They got him out and emptied him;
            Alas, it was too late;
            His spirit was gone for to sport aloft
            In the realms of the good and great.

“Emptied him.” Holy shit. Getting a laugh by having one of your characters create a ridiculous work of art is a long tradition, of course—think of A Midsummer Night’s Dream or Arrested Development—but I’m not sure anyone ever did it better than Twain. In 1885, Twain intended Emmeline’s poem as a parody of Julia A. Moore, “The Sweet Singer of Michigan,” who was sort of like Rupi Kaur if Rupi Kaur wrote shitty 19th-century common meter poems about dead babies rather than shitty 21st-century free verse poems built on the premise that self-help advice is art if you chop it into lines. But you don’t really need to catch the reference to get the joke—as long as there are humans there will be maudlin art, and as long as there are moody teenagers, there will be unbelievably terrible maudlin art. So don’t laugh too hard at Emmeline—you know you’ve got your own ancient notebook or sketchbook or cassette tape of hormonal garbage tucked away in a drawer somewhere. Lord knows I do.

And on that note, what I think makes the Emmeline passage moving rather than just funny, mean, and a touch misogynistic (though it is all those things) is Huck’s reaction to Emmeline’s work. Twain, obviously, is making fun of her, and there are a few choice one-liners at her expense, most notably, “Everybody was sorry she died...But I reckoned, that with her disposition, she was having a better time in the graveyard.” But Huck’s overall response is much more vexed. He admits that the pictures bum him out sometimes (specifically they “give [him] the fan-tods”), but he also spends lots of time reading her scrapbook, and he thinks it isn’t right that after Emmeline wrote poems for so many dead people, no one bothered to write a poem for her. “So I tried to sweat out a verse or two myself,” Huck says, “but I couldn’t seem to make it go, somehow.”

This is almost impossibly sweet. Huck’s desire to commemorate Emmeline arguably cuts against the grain of the scene, inasmuch as Emmeline’s most obvious function is comic relief. There are really three different sensibilities running around this scene, or, to be more specific, three different ways of approaching art: Twain’s brutally withering satire, Huck’s naive receptivity and generosity, and Emmeline’s guileless commitment to following her own muse. The passage works because any good reader has all three of those approaches somewhere inside themselves. The jokes are not, for the most part, explicitly stated, since they are in Huck’s voice and he is never openly cruel to Emmeline—indeed, you only catch that they are jokes if you have an ear for Twain’s irony. But at the same time, the irony only stings if you have enough of Emmeline in you to know the awkward, adolescent place which spawned those pictures and poems. We’ve all been embarrassingly open, and we’ve all been snide and sarcastic,[2] but hopefully we also have it in us to follow Huck’s example and be at least a little generous, and to appreciate that even failed creativity usually comes from a deeply human, vulnerable, and even beautiful place.

My students always seem to be a bit mystified about why Twain takes a several-page detour to talk about a character who isn’t even alive during the book, but they sometimes get more interested when I ask them to imagine Emmeline in their own high schools. For Emmeline is always with us. She’s a prototype of the goth kid, the emo kid. If Emmeline had been 15 in 1980, she would have been over the moon for Joy Division. Had she been 15 in the 2000’s, her Live Journal would have redefined what it means to be influenced by My Chemical Romance.[3] She’s Winona in Beetlejuice; she’s burning her old boy band posters; her mom is a “total bitch;” and God only knows what she’s scribbling in that notebook. Oh Emmelines of the world, may you always survive your Emmeline years.  

So I named this blog after Emmeline. I obviously want to be funny from time to time, so why not name it after something I find to be very funny? But I also want to remind myself to have the guts to put out into the world something I created, because even if what I write is a bit ridiculous, or if my reach exceeds my grasp, I might at some point connect to the right generous reader. Here’s hoping.

In the spirit of Huck the generous reader, my plan for the rest of the year is to write things celebrating my favorite stuff from the 2010’s. For the world as a whole, it’s been a “low, dishonest decade,” to quote a poem from a moment more ominous than our own, but there have been plenty of wonderful things. So for the next few weeks I’m going to appreciate them with as much openness as my cynical Show-Me heart can muster.




[1] Speaking of bric-a-brac, the best recent event in my family is as follows. My mother was looking out to the window of our kitchen to try to locate my father, who was exactly where she’d left him. While she was looking, she accidentally knocked a papier-mache banana off the windowsill. “Oh!” she exclaimed, “The false banana has fallen!”
[2] I was pretty snide two paragraphs ago.
[3] The rule of threes dictates that I should make a Tik-Tok joke, but I don’t really understand what Tik-Tok is.

Friday, November 1, 2019

Ironic Points of Light


All reasons for starting blogs are stupid, but my reason is especially stupid: the first website I read when I wake up every afternoon just got annihilated by hideous private equity baboons, and I don’t really know what to read anymore. And thus I shall write my own content. Granted, it won’t be much fun for me to read, since I’ll know how every post ends, but recall that I never promised this wouldn’t be stupid.  

I’m sure that someone somewhere still has fun on the internet—probably the Gen Zers, twitching away in their rooms to some polymorphous rpg livestreaming face swap collage I couldn’t begin to comprehend (keep it a secret, kids—don’t let anyone else in—we would just kill it). But for my part, I don’t have much fun anymore. Whether it’s media conglomeration or clickbait factories or the sewer that is Twitter or memes memes memes, whatever promise the internet might have offered for enlightenment about a weirder, freer world seems covered by a dark cloud, and I am the old man shaking my fist at that cloud (note: I didn’t say I didn’t read the memes).

One thing I want out of the internet is to access thoughtful, interesting essays, but it seems nigh-impossible for a website to make money, or at least to make a shit-ton of money, publishing thoughtful writing, and so the sites that produce writing that matters are increasingly dying or pay-walled, and it’s not yet clear that the latter strategy is going to work for anyone but The New York Times. Perhaps it was always an accident of the late twentieth century that your Susan Sontags and James Baldwins and Truman Capotes and Margaret Atwoods could get big checks from big magazines for their big essays. That, by the way, is a list of people of who published in Playboy. Has the internet, by offering up pictures of naked ladies gratis, killed American literature? I digress.

Part of me very much wants to cut the previous paragraph, because I’ve painted myself into the ludicrous corner of seeming to suggest that I’m blogging because I want to write great essays. But then again, fuck it: of course, deep down, I want to do something that matters. I doubt that I will, but why not have the ambition? What I really want—and here’s your headline—is to write stuff that I would like to read. Which in my case is probably going to consist of essays about poetry and board games and Jersey Shore and the varying degrees to which various chain concept restaurants on the Plaza suck. Perhaps you’d like to read some of it too, in which case, I hope you enjoy it.